Happiness
NEW research that shows that choice of partner and life goals drastically affect a person’s satisfaction with life — overturning the popular theory that happiness is largely decided by personality traits moulded early in life and genetic factors.
TIP: Take a moment to read this research article, it’s something to really think about (CLICK).
Problems
What are the three most important problems facing you in your relationship/life/business/career right now where you need to PTO? What is it that keeps you awake at night? What is your #1 problem?
Here are some examples listed by previous members
PROBLEMS:
– to save my marriage;
– to cope with a difficult boss;
– to pay my mortgage;
– to choose between academic courses;
– to overcome fear of using the telephone in selling;
– to speak in public;
– to make new friends;
– to lose weight.
DFQ #17:
PEEL A PROBLEM ORANGE!
Choosing one of the three problem areas you thought of above give yourself an orange to peel. Complete (with, who, when and where) the following sentence:Regarding my (#1 problem) I will PTO ….
I will PTO my level of debt to more manageable proportions for my current life style
Regarding one of my job tasks, I´m working in a group where people are not too motivated and have lazy proposals. My approach asking them to rise the level is stopping them, so I will PTO and follow their path so we start and once started I will be the one starting the BVS so they follow if interested and motivated 🙂
Regarding my need to find a new opportunity when I move to the US later this year I will PTO with requesting a meeting with a mentor (Tony) on 24th of March in his office.
Regarding my kids I will PTO with them in so I will be at ease and I can concentrate in setting up my business to do social work.
Regarding my need and desire for a higher financial income -I will PTO with my family and business colleagues -in the next 12 weeks -in my local community. I will find a BVS that exceeds the CVS X 10.
In regarding my problem of not being sufficiently inspired and excited about the direction my businesses are heading, I will reduce the amount of tasks I don’t get enjoyment from by delegating them to other people. I will need to provide additional training to some of these people in order for them to complete these tasks to the standard that i am currently doing them. I will then start allocating more time to the areas that inspire me so that my level of enthusiasm improves. This will no doubt increase my creativity which will start to change the direction of my businesses. This will begin a chain reaction leading to an improved level of satisfaction which will flow into all the other areas of my life, including my ability to motivate others, my relationship with family, friends and co-workers and my general health and well being.
Regarding my problem â„–1. Bad or not qualitative thinking. I understand PTO as the following dialogue: – “Do you think in a bad way?” – “Well. Think in a good way. Just do it!” It makes sense because at heart we know how to do it or we can make efforts to learn how to do it.
Today. I will open a new file. I will type point by point. What must I do to think better? In what way must I think to be tisfied wiht the result? What I know about effective thinking? What I know about me rgarding my thinking? Then I’ll print it and hang on the wall.
I will pto and contact my accountant(with) and start looking for a new location by going on the internet site (who) Zillow;(when) tomorrow; and start looking for a (what) new larger business location; (where) near my current location. Is that PTO Michael ? I hope so.
Regarding my Not Listening Well Problem, I will practice and repeat Listening with important people in my life at least 10 times a day and recognize when I am not listening well.
Regarding manging my money I will PTO by sticking to payment routines maintain contact with debtors increase saving rate and seek alternative ways to increase income gradually.