Happiness
NEW research that shows that choice of partner and life goals drastically affect a person’s satisfaction with life — overturning the popular theory that happiness is largely decided by personality traits moulded early in life and genetic factors.
TIP: Take a moment to read this research article, it’s something to really think about (CLICK).
Problems
What are the three most important problems facing you in your relationship/life/business/career right now where you need to PTO? What is it that keeps you awake at night? What is your #1 problem?
Here are some examples listed by previous members
PROBLEMS:
– to save my marriage;
– to cope with a difficult boss;
– to pay my mortgage;
– to choose between academic courses;
– to overcome fear of using the telephone in selling;
– to speak in public;
– to make new friends;
– to lose weight.
DFQ #17:
PEEL A PROBLEM ORANGE!
Choosing one of the three problem areas you thought of above give yourself an orange to peel. Complete (with, who, when and where) the following sentence:Regarding my (#1 problem) I will PTO ….
Regarding my (#1 problem) I will PTO by saving more money and sticking to my financial goals to help pay off my personal loan
Regarding my building a solid pipeline not reliant on 1-2 key clients, I will PTO the development of 3 workshops I have been chipping away on over the last 12 months. Basically I need to spend 1-2 hours a day of creative thinking for 4 weeks and then to lock myself away for 4 weeks and finish them off. Realistically 8-12 weeks elapsed time and keep the lights on at the same time.
– to choose between academic courses;
Regarding my (#1 problem) I will PTO – do independent learning.
relationship/life/business/career are one whole.
So, what is left for better problem solving and ultimately success is to keep learning.
Regarding my further improvement on my memory(#1 problem) I will PTO ….I will increase my effort in this regards spending 20 extra minutes each day on this problem.with my own efforts at reseach, every day at home and libary.
If some people have a problem they seem to twist and turn worrying about this and that and cannot sleep no matter how hard they try. I have the same problem but if I can’t sleep I start doing exercises in bed. My focus then changes to the exercise usually 300 sit ups and some leg exercises. I know this would not work for everybody but it certainly works for me.
Regarding my Web programming I will PTO ….and find some help.
Top 3 Problems:
1. Motivating myself to continue business (due to work family balance issues and my belief that family relationships shouldbe prioritied)
2. Scaling my business by focusing on the right opportunities and paying for new employees etc and ot having enough time to get busines
3. Handling high international travel load and what I think is not a healthy lifestyle (i.e. not getting a lot of exercise because too tired from work, busy with kids etc)
Regarding my No. 1 problem, I will PTO by discussing wth my wife this weekend during a cup of coffee how we can improve my business motivation to make clear the reasons why I am working so damned hard.
#1 problem : Financial freedom.
Who : Me.
When : Right now.
Where : Casablanca.
How: Taking formations in the web about internet marketing then attracting leads so i begin to build a strong business.
Regarding my problem of building my own house, I will PTO by conducting extra training sessions after my normal duty hours. Since I have been able to create a niche for my self, it would not be a problem. I have already taken the first step by conducting a successful session this morning.