Happiness
NEW research that shows that choice of partner and life goals drastically affect a person’s satisfaction with life — overturning the popular theory that happiness is largely decided by personality traits moulded early in life and genetic factors.
TIP: Take a moment to read this research article, it’s something to really think about (CLICK).
Problems
What are the three most important problems facing you in your relationship/life/business/career right now where you need to PTO? What is it that keeps you awake at night? What is your #1 problem?
Here are some examples listed by previous members
PROBLEMS:
– to save my marriage;
– to cope with a difficult boss;
– to pay my mortgage;
– to choose between academic courses;
– to overcome fear of using the telephone in selling;
– to speak in public;
– to make new friends;
– to lose weight.
DFQ #17:
PEEL A PROBLEM ORANGE!
Choosing one of the three problem areas you thought of above give yourself an orange to peel. Complete (with, who, when and where) the following sentence:Regarding my (#1 problem) I will PTO ….
Regarding my problem of poor finance, I will PTO by thinking & considering alternative means of income. I could possibly do this by starting a bussiness, being more gainfully employed and possibilly selling my skill. The first step to achieving this will i take today & will continue moving till i get to the home(Where money dwells).
Regarding my problem of procrastination I will PTO for writing book which I have started long ago and putting if off by writing as much I can week over week ends.
Regarding my problem of sporadic income I will PTO by creating and executing a definite marketing plan.
I will create the plan by no later than January 10th, 2011.
Problem: To launch a new business quickly
Who? Me
When? Today
How? One page Business Plan then Website then material then customers
Regarding my problem of not being challenged at work and not wanting to leave the company I work for, I will PTO by building a plan were I can take other responsibilities in the location I work at while keep on leading the team I currently lead.
Regarding my problem of public speaking, I will PTO by applying to joining the Victorian chapter Toastmasters by January next year.
Regaring my problem of downsizing after getting my son off to college,I will PTO in finding a new place to live and starting a new life for myself and parter.
Regardig my problem of a shortage of money, I will start today, in my city, to initiate a plan and implement it to alleiviate my financial worries.
Regarding my problem with generating additional income from my home business, I will PTO by launching a website and communicating it to 100 people by 9/7/10 and ask them to buy.
Regarding my (#1 problem) I will use tit4tat strategy to deal with absenteeism at work.